Who are your current most favorite people?
There are certain people whose presence feels like sunlight. They walk into your life, and suddenly everything feels lighter, warmer, and a little more possible. When I think about my own life and the people who anchor me, sharpen me, and remind me that joy is not an accident but a gift, there is one name that always rises to the surface: Chris, my close friend from London. The one who makes even ordinary moments feel cinematic.
As Proverbs reminds us, “A friend loves at all times” (Proverbs 17:17), and I have lived that verse through him more times than I can count.
Why He Is My Person
If you have ever had a friend who feels like a chapter you never want to end, then you understand exactly what this friend means to me. We met years ago, and somehow our friendship just kept expanding, as if God whispered, “This one is for the long haul.” His humor is quick, his insight is sharp, and his British accent makes even simple words sound like wisdom. Add French to the mix and suddenly our conversations feel like global adventures, even when we are just catching up on FaceTime.
One of my favorite reminders comes from an old French proverb: “A friend is a second self.” That line hits close because there are moments when talking to him feels like sitting across from another version of me, except with more tea and dryer humor.
The Sacred Joy of Shared Laughter
Laughter has always been one of my barometers for connection. With him, it shows up effortlessly. We laugh at old memories, inside jokes that would make no sense to anyone else, and even at life’s random plot twists. There is healing in that kind of laughter. Psalm 16:11 says, “You will fill me with joy in your presence,” and over the years I have come to see that God often uses people to deliver that joy. He is one of those people.
And I love this line from Henri Nouwen: “Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.” Our friendship is one of the places where choosing joy feels natural, not forced.
Jesus said, “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you” (John 15:12). That kind of love shows up in consistent presence, compassion, and connection. It shows up in friendships that stretch across oceans yet never lose their closeness.
Soul Insights
Here are the deeper truths rising from this friendship and why it carries so much meaning in my life.
1. Some friendships feel like divine appointments.
God places people in your path to remind you that life is meant to be shared. When a friendship is built on encouragement, comfort, and mutual growth, it becomes more than companionship. It becomes ministry. My friend has been that presence in my life, someone who reflects God’s kindness without trying. These are the friendships you nurture intentionally.
2. Laughter is emotional oxygen.
There are seasons where laughter keeps you afloat, and the people who spark that joy become integral to your healing. With Chris, laughter resets my spirit and unclutters the emotional noise. It invites lightness back into the room. It also reminds me that God delights when we delight. Joy is not shallow. It is strength.
3. Distance cannot dilute real connection.
Some friendships stretch across continents and yet feel as close as the person sitting beside you. Distance has a way of clarifying what matters. It reveals who stays, who shows up, and who holds space for you even when life is complicated. We have lived this rhythm for years, proving that presence is not about proximity. It is about commitment.
4. Great friendships sharpen purpose.
There are people who help you think clearer, dream bigger, and live more aligned. Conversations with him often leave me with new clarity or a fresh perspective. He challenges me without judgment, encourages me without pressure, and celebrates me without hesitation. These are the friendships that help you grow into the person God always intended you to be.
5. Love in friendship is underrated.
We talk endlessly about romantic love, but friendship love carries its own kind of fire. It anchors you during transitions, steadies you in uncertainty, and lifts you in seasons where your spirit feels low. A strong friendship teaches you emotional generosity and spiritual belonging. It reminds you that love in all its forms is a reflection of God.
Final Thoughts
When I look at my life, I see God’s fingerprints in the people He has woven into my story. Chris is one of the brightest threads. Friendship like this deserves gratitude, intention, and stewardship. It reminds me that true connection is rare and that joy is worth protecting.
Your Turn
Who are the people who brighten your world? Who makes you laugh, think, grow, or breathe easier? Take a moment to thank God for them. And if you have not told them lately what they mean to you, maybe this is your cue.
By the way…
While you’re here, I’d love for you to explore my book 17 Syllables of Me and visit my website, SoulPath Insights.
Thank you for taking the time to read! 🤗
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