How do we follow Christ while guiding others to do the same? This question has been on my heart since a recent Bible study with a friend. We dived into the topic of discipling and what it truly means to build each other up, not through perfection but through authenticity and faithfulness.
One scripture that resonated deeply with me is Paul’s bold statement: “Follow my example, as I follow Christ” (1 Corinthians 11:1). It’s both an invitation and a challenge—one that calls us to live in a way that reflects Christ, while also encouraging others to do the same. Discipling isn’t just about sharing knowledge; it’s about living the Word and helping others do so, too.
As I reflected on this, I realized that discipling is like preparing for a formal party. You wouldn’t show up in casual clothes; you’d dress appropriately, ensuring you’re presentable. Spiritually, we do the same by “clothing ourselves” in Christ-like virtues like compassion, kindness, humility, and love.
This post explores the heart of discipling: openness, authenticity, and using the Word of God to build others up. Let’s journey together as we reflect on how we can embody Christ in our daily lives and encourage others to do the same.
Openness and Authenticity
True discipling begins with openness. My friend and I talked about the importance of sharing what’s truly going on in our lives—not just the victories, but the struggles, too. This kind of vulnerability creates space for mutual growth and accountability.
As Proverbs 27:17 says, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” When we open up to one another, we allow ourselves to be refined, sharpened, and encouraged. It’s not about airing every detail but about fostering authenticity in a way that strengthens our walk with God.
Just like dressing for that formal party, discipling requires intentionality. Colossians 3:12 reminds us, “Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.” These virtues are the “spiritual attire” we need to be effective disciples.
Following Leaders as They Follow Christ
Paul’s words, “Follow my example, as I follow Christ” (1 Corinthians 11:1), are both humbling and inspiring. They remind us that discipling isn’t about perfection; it’s about pointing others to Jesus through our lives.
In our Bible study, we talked about the importance of looking to leaders whose lives reflect Christ. But ultimately, it’s not the leaders we’re following—it’s Christ Himself. When we keep Him as our focus, we can disciple others with confidence, knowing we’re pointing them to the One who is perfect.
One quote that beautifully captures this is from Charles Spurgeon: “Carve your name on hearts, not on marble.” Discipling is about leaving a lasting spiritual impact, one rooted in Christ’s example.
Practicing the Word
Discipling also requires correctly handling God’s Word. Ephesians 4:29 encourages us: “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs.” When we use scripture with love and care, it builds up rather than tears down.
It’s not always easy to live out what we read, but prayer and consistent practice help align our hearts with God’s will. Another quote that inspires me is from D.L. Moody: “The Bible was not given for our information, but for our transformation.” Discipling others starts with letting the Word transform us first.
Soul Insights
1. Discipling is a Partnership.
Discipling isn’t a one-way street; it’s a shared journey where both individuals grow together. Just as Paul encouraged Timothy to follow his example (2 Timothy 2:2), we’re called to teach and be taught, to encourage and be encouraged. This mutual sharpening reminds us that we’re not meant to walk the Christian life alone. Each relationship becomes an opportunity to reflect God’s love and deepen our spiritual maturity.
2. Authenticity is Powerful.
There’s something freeing about being honest with others about our struggles and victories. Authenticity allows us to reflect the reality of God’s work in our lives—the good, the messy, and the transformative. James 5:16 says, “Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.” Healing and growth come when we move beyond surface-level conversations and truly share our hearts.
3. Prayer is Essential.
Discipling is impossible without prayer. It’s in prayer that we ask God for wisdom, strength, and grace to guide others well. Prayer also reminds us that discipling isn’t about our power or wisdom—it’s about God working through us. Philippians 4:6 urges us, “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” Whether we’re praying for ourselves or those we disciple, prayer is the lifeline that keeps us connected to the ultimate source of guidance.
4. It’s About Christ, Not Us.
The heart of discipling is pointing others to Christ—not to ourselves. As Paul said in Galatians 2:20, “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me.” Our goal isn’t to showcase our own lives or abilities but to reflect Christ’s love, humility, and grace. When we take the focus off ourselves, we allow Jesus to take center stage in every interaction.
5. The Word is Our Foundation.
At the core of discipling is the Word of God. It’s our guide, our truth, and the tool God uses to transform lives. Hebrews 4:12 reminds us, “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” When we disciple others, we’re not relying on our own wisdom but on the living power of Scripture to convict, comfort, and guide.
Bonus Insight: Growth Takes Time
Discipling is a process, not a one-time event. Like seeds planted in good soil, growth requires patience, nurturing, and faith. Jesus reminds us in John 15:5, “I am the vine; you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit.” Remaining in Christ means trusting Him to produce growth, both in ourselves and in those we disciple.
Final Thoughts
Discipling is both a privilege and a responsibility. It challenges us to live authentically, to grow in Christ, and to encourage others to do the same. As we follow leaders who reflect Christ, and as we practice using the Word correctly, we become vessels for God’s work in others’ lives.
One last quote to reflect on comes from Dietrich Bonhoeffer: “Discipleship is not an offer that man makes to Christ. It is a command from Christ to follow Him.” Let’s take this call seriously, living in a way that reflects His love and grace.
How are you clothing yourself today? Are you ready to build others up in Christ? Let’s start by being open, practicing the Word, and always pointing back to Him.
© 2024 Amelie Chambord
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