Soul Path Insights

A Conversation That Sparked Reflection

The sound of laughter and karaoke filled the air as snow-like foam floated from a machine in my friend’s backyard. It was the kind of evening that leaves you smiling—a lively Christmas party filled with good food, warm conversations, and moments that remind you of life’s simple joys. Yet, amidst the festive chaos, one quiet conversation stood out.

I was catching up with EJ, a new friend who works at the Korean Cultural Center in Los Angeles. We chatted about the party, and as I mentioned I’d be leaving early, she asked why. I explained that I needed to get up early to help with the audio-visual setup at church. Her next question took me by surprise but felt thoughtful rather than confrontational: “Why do you serve in church?”

Her curiosity struck a chord, and I answered from the heart: “For me, it’s about imitating Jesus. Christianity isn’t about labels or recognition—it’s a lifestyle. Serving is my way of reflecting God’s love in everything I do.”

Her interest in my answer lingered with me, sparking a deeper reflection: What does it truly mean to live a life of giving—not for applause, but out of genuine love?

Why I Serve: A Journey of Faith and Gratitude

Service, for me, isn’t a duty—it’s a way to express gratitude for everything God has given me. I’m inspired by Matthew 20:28, where Jesus says, “The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.” His example of humility and selflessness sets the standard for how I want to live.

That doesn’t mean it’s always easy. Service often requires time, energy, and sacrifice. But it also brings a kind of joy that nothing else can replicate. As Mother Teresa wisely said, “Not all of us can do great things. But we can do small things with great love.” It’s in these small acts—helping at church, organizing events, or even listening to someone who needs support—that I find purpose and fulfillment.

A Lifestyle, Not a Task

During my conversation with EJ, I explained that serving isn’t about what I get out of it. While there’s a deep joy in giving, my focus isn’t on the outcome—it’s on aligning my actions with my faith. Colossians 3:23 captures this perfectly: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.”

This mindset shifts how I approach service. It’s not about recognition or achieving perfection; it’s about reflecting God’s love in ways both big and small. Whether it’s setting up a church event, sharing a meal with friends, or encouraging someone through a tough time, my hope is that people see Jesus in how I show up.

I’m reminded of Muhammad Ali’s words: “Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on Earth.” When I serve, I feel like I’m honoring the blessings I’ve received and giving back in gratitude. Even though it’s something that isn’t changing the world overnight—it’s making a difference in the lives of those around me.

Reflecting on Your Journey of Service

As I reflected on my reasons for serving, I found myself asking a few questions that might resonate with you, too:

1. What motivates me to serve?

Am I serving out of obligation, or is my heart focused on loving others as God loves me?

2. Do I see service as a lifestyle or a task?

How can I bring a spirit of service into my everyday life, not just during special occasions or events?

3. How do I handle the sacrifices of serving?

When it feels hard or thankless, do I turn to God for strength and renewal?

4. Am I reflecting Jesus in my actions?

Are my words and deeds pointing others toward Him, even in small, quiet ways?

5. How does serving bring me joy?

What moments of joy or connection have I experienced through giving back?

These questions helped me evaluate not just what I do, but why I do it. It also serves as a reminder that serving isn’t about perfection but about progress, intention, and love.

The Joy of Giving

As the evening wrapped up and I drove home, I felt grateful—not just for the party or the conversation, but for the deeper understanding it sparked. Serving isn’t always easy, and it’s rarely glamorous. But it’s one of the most rewarding ways to live, especially when it’s done with the intention to reflect Jesus’ heart.

Galatians 6:9 encourages us, “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” This verse reminds me that even when the fruits of service aren’t immediately visible, they’re always significant in God’s eyes.

If there’s one legacy I hope to leave, it’s this: to live a life that points others to Jesus through love, humility, and service. True significance isn’t found in doing everything perfectly but in doing the simple things with a loving heart, trusting God to handle the rest.

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© 2024 Amelie Chambord