Have you ever looked back on something you wrote years ago and felt like it was written by a version of you that still exists today? That’s what happened to me last night. As I sifted through old papers and writings—poems, journal entries, and notes I had penned years ago—I expected to feel disconnected from the person I was back then. But instead, I found something surprising: the same voice, the same passions, the same beliefs.
It struck me how certain parts of our minds—the core of who we are—don’t change, even as the world around us shifts. These constants are like roots grounding us through life’s storms. As Proverbs 4:23 says, “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Our hearts—the core of who we are—guide our actions and anchor us, even when life feels uncertain.
The Constants That Define Us
There are parts of me that have grown and evolved, but my faith in God has been an unwavering constant. It’s not just a belief—it’s the lens through which I see the world, the guiding star that keeps me grounded. When my sister passed away recently, my faith reminded me that even in the midst of grief, there is hope. It didn’t erase the pain, but it gave me the strength to hold on, knowing that God’s love endures forever. As Isaiah 40:8 says, “The grass withers and the flowers fall, but the word of our God endures forever.”
Another constant is my love for writing. Since grade school, I’ve poured my thoughts and emotions onto paper. Writing has always been my way of processing life and preserving memories. Looking at those old pieces last night, I realized how little that has changed. Writing still feels like home to me. Maya Angelou’s words ring true: “You can’t use up creativity. The more you use, the more you have.” Writing isn’t just a passion—it’s a reflection of who I am.
Even my core values—like the importance of living righteously—have stayed the same. These beliefs are woven into how I treat others and the decisions I make. They are the compass I use to navigate life’s twists and turns.
Why the Mind Resists Change
Some might say the mind changes constantly, but I don’t fully agree. Yes, we adapt, we learn, and we grow. But the things that are closest to our hearts—the beliefs, dreams, and passions that define us—tend to stay the same. Perhaps that’s because they provide the stability we need to face life’s uncertainties.
C.S. Lewis said, “You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.” This resonates deeply with me. Even though my core has stayed the same, I know I can always build on it to shape my future. My faith, my creativity, and my values are constants, but they’re not stagnant—they’re alive and evolving, helping me grow into the person I’m meant to be.
Growth Within Stability
That’s not to say I haven’t changed at all. Life has a way of refining us, shaping our edges, and giving us new perspectives. I’ve grown stronger, more resilient, and more aware of the complexity of the world. But even as I’ve grown, I’ve carried those core parts of myself forward.
Ecclesiastes 3:11 reminds us, “He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart.” That verse resonates because it speaks to the timeless truths within us—those parts of ourselves that are eternal, unchanging, and beautiful in every stage of life.
Soul Insights
1. Anchor Yourself in the Eternal:
Isaiah 40:8 reminds us that God’s word endures forever. Anchoring yourself in something eternal gives you strength to navigate life’s uncertainties. What eternal truth guides your heart?
2. Honor Your Passions:
Maya Angelou said, “You can’t use up creativity. The more you use, the more you have.” Nurture the passions that reflect your core self—they are timeless and deserve your attention.
3. Embrace Stability as Strength:
Your unwavering beliefs and values are like roots. They don’t hold you back; they help you grow taller.
4. Let Change Shape Without Breaking You:
C.S. Lewis reminds us that while we can’t change the beginning, we can shape the ending. Growth doesn’t erase your core—it enhances it.
5. Trust the Power of Reflection:
Looking back can reveal how much of your core self has stayed the same. As Proverbs 4:23 teaches, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. What part of your younger self do you still carry with you?
Final Thoughts
There’s something comforting about realizing that, while life changes, some things within us remain constant. Our passions, our beliefs, and our faith are like a thread weaving through our lives, connecting every version of ourselves.
If you feel disconnected from who you are, take a moment to reflect on what has stayed the same. You might find that your unchanging truths are the ones that matter most. And as Philippians 1:6 reminds us, “He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”
So as I continue to write, to reflect, and to live, I hold onto those constants. They remind me of who I am, where I’ve been, and where I’m going. And they remind me that, even when the world feels uncertain, there’s a part of me that will always stay the same.
© 2024 Amelie Chambord
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