Soul Path Insights

In June 2013, I heard my first BTS song, “No More Dream.” At that time, I was an avid fan of the group Big Bang and closely followed their news, particularly their concert dates in Los Angeles. One day, a meme appeared on my social media timeline featuring a photo of Big Bang on top and BTS on the bottom, with the caption, “If you can’t marry Big Bang, marry the fanboys.” This piqued my curiosity about BTS, leading me to search for their music videos on YouTube. Thus began my journey of falling into the BTS rabbit hole.

The first BTS videos I watched were “No More Dream,” followed by “We Are Bulletproof Pt. 2,” “N.O.,” and “Just One Day.” The lyrics of “No More Dream” and “N.O.” particularly shocked me. I’ll discuss “No More Dream” in this post and address “N.O.” in a future blog entry.

“No More Dream” stood out to me because it critiqued the stereotypical expectations parents have for their children to excel in school and secure stable jobs in civil service. This societal pressure turns dreams into oppressive obligations. Children end up living out their parents’ aspirations rather than pursuing their own dreams.

On the flip side, the song addresses those who dream of owning houses, luxury cars, and expensive rings—symbols of success—yet do nothing to achieve these dreams. These individuals lack direction and procrastinate, leading to repetitive, unfulfilling lives. Societal pressure and the stress of striving for a dream can crush young people’s ambitions, leaving them with no dreams of their own. They become empty shells, trapped in a cycle of comfort and monotony.

The song’s chorus challenges the listener with the question, “What is your dream?” This powerful inquiry encourages self-reflection on forgotten childhood aspirations and urges individuals to challenge societal expectations by carving their own paths to find true fulfillment.

Soul Insights

Challenge Societal Expectations

It’s crucial to question societal norms instead of blindly following the status quo. We need to understand why we do what we do and be intentional about our choices and actions. Evaluating oneself regularly ensures that one remains on their desired path instead of succumbing to societal pressures.

Reflect on Personal Aspirations

 “No More Dream” encourages us to remember our initial dreams, especially those from childhood. Often, parents impose their own dreams on their children, leading them to live out aspirations that are not truly their own. Conducting a self-assessment can help determine whether one’s current pursuits align with personal dreams or parental expectations. Living one’s own dream is far more fulfilling than living someone else’s. The song’s question, “What is your dream?” urges us to revisit our childhood aspirations and consider if our current path aligns with them. Reflecting on personal goals can reignite passion and purpose.

Avoid Procrastination 

Many people keep dreaming without taking action to fulfill those dreams. Dreams remain intangible unless we act on them. It is our responsibility to turn dreams into reality, which requires effort and hard work. The path to achieving a dream is filled with challenges, and without taking action and planning ahead, dreams remain dreams. We are never guaranteed tomorrow; the best time to work on a dream is today. Don’t put it off—just do it.

Recognize the Pressure of Conformity

Just because everyone is doing something doesn’t mean it will work for you. Pave your own path and be confident in who you are. Nonconformity brings its own challenges because it makes a person stand out, but there’s nothing wrong with standing out.

Embrace Individuality 

Everyone has unique gifts, and it’s okay to reveal one’s true self even if it feels uncomfortable. Authenticity gives individuals the freedom to express themselves without wearing a mask. It’s more stressful to go against personal beliefs and values. Speak up and express yourself. Don’t let societal labels or categories imprison you. Go beyond society’s expectations and embrace your true self.

© 2024 Amelie Chambord